(TW: Teen depression, death, rebellion, world annihilation and suicide ideation is a theme in my younger years writing.)
The word Autism didn’t exist in my vocabulary when I was a teenager. Certainly, masking to blend wasn’t a concept in my mind – even as I was donning the mask.
Survival depended on it.
Yet, without the words, I saw and felt the mask and balked. Wrote angsty teen poems about it. Rebelled, heartily, against it.
Well, when I was a teen at least, and then, as an adult, I succumbed to it. My center-self was muted and most of my personality was expressed in internet social groups .
I’d been expert at blending in even as a child. Quiet and calm to be forgotten and let be. Pipe up every now and then so no one worries where I am, then stick my nose back in a book, and back into my world.
As a teen The Mask felt so constrictive and terrible, and my rebellion against it wasn’t very understood – even by me. I was sincerely alone growing up and my best friends were my dog, and characters in the books I read. I did have friends who were accepting of my differences – and even then I struggled to feel connected to my peers.
To join in #TakeTheMaskOff , I am sharing these penciled words from a journal I kept in the 80s as a teen.
Autistically,
Eve Reiland
Civilization
You perverted animal.
stalking all your jungle streets
going in for your bloody kill
take senseless lives as you please
one less headache
one more psycho
what a precious civilization
the blood is still dripping
one more night
one more day
who cares
soon you’ll all be dead
stupid clones with
all your systematic dreams
your day is coming
that’s the way the world turns
in your positively
terrific civilization
By Eve Reiland 2.16.89
Eve’s “The Mask” Gallery | #TakeTheMaskOff
Here are photos from my early years and I can clearly see the difference in my expressions compared to now, after the mask has been removed.
I’m told I don’t look like the same person now. That I have a different personality now.
Those who knew me online, say I am like my personality online in person now.
~e
Simple Minded
Zigzagging a busy walk
order, all in order
order
their making a systematic list
all timed perfectly
how motonous
how dead
nothing white
nothing black
not even different shades of gray
simple minded
simple minded
no pressure
no pain
no caring
no abuse
no sympathy
simple minded
simple minded
a continuous timetable
a right time, a right place
impossible
impossible
nonexistent
nonexistent
nonexistent
nonexistent
order – all in order
order
order
simple minded
simple minded
By Eve Reiland 2.27.89
General Education
Sitting in a constricting seat
treated like a juvenile
words pounded into my brain
communism?
capitalism?
Freedom! That’s what it is.
It’s a general education
cramming it all down my throat
exploding in my head.
Its just a general
a very general
education.
By Eve Reiland circa 89
All Is Good
Inspiration hit
instantaneously like a bomb
as long as it doesn’t evaporate
I’ll be OK
because
All is good
All is good
All is good
All is good down the street, up the block,
around the corner,
no worries. no fret.
income with all the respect
All is good
All is good
All is good
Believeability , understanding
communication
no prejudice
against me
All is good
All is good
All is good
All is very good
By Eve Reiland circa 89
Dear Society
Squeezing the blood out of your soul
a high pitched yell
slaps me in the face
stricken terror
runs through my veins
all I see
is blackness around me
the smell of death
pervades all
re-interactions of a crime
sacrilegious prayer
muffled into undertone
an innocent life
taken by my hand
the breaths quicken
of yet an undead man
at once it is no more
all hope went out the door
footsteps fall
slammed against a stone wall
in an now empty alley
all my murders added up
I shall end here with a silent scream.
If you want to help me out, send money from your bank account.
Admirably yours,
By Eve Reiland circa 89
Death, death, death
Death, death, death, death
dead
you are dead
your mind has stopped wandering
your breath
it stopped quickening
your eyes stopped seeing
your mouth
it speaks nothing at all
your hands stopped moving
your legs don’t walk anymore
no movement
no explination
its just a conversion
with all its idiotic victories.
you have transferred
you have converted
you are dead
you’re another social monster
screaming at me
goodbye, goodbye
goodbye, goodbye
your toes have stopped wiggling
you’re a non-hippie now
you’re anon-punk now
you’re a non-free expresser now
because you’re a social trend now
because you’re dead now.
By Eve Reiland circa 89
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The process of self-awareness, when we don’t even know what we’re dealing with as undiagnosed autistics, is so maddening, especially when confronting social norms that not only don’t make sense, they seem, and may actually be, harmful. I still write angsty poetry from time to time, but the 80s perms are long gone!
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