We’re several months into mandatory pandemic face masking, and my son still can’t wear a mask. It’s not for lack of trying; he knows he’s supposed to wear one, and we talk about how they help protect people from COVID-19 and why it is a deadly and contagious virus. When I put my mask on, he puts his on, too. And then, because the feeling of a mask on his face is intolerable for autistic sensory reasons, he takes that mask right off again. I don’t know if he’ll ever be able wear a mask for more than sixty seconds.
And this is why I am highly irritated by parents of autistic kids saying that “if my kids can do it,” then other people can’t complain about wearing masks: It sets a dangerously ableist precedent for forced mask compliance.[…]